Where Did All the Pages Go

Some of you might notice, others might have missed it, and there are probably other who don’t care, but as of Wednesday evening, most of the pages on this website disappeared.

I’ve started the somewhat slow process this week of updating every page on this website because so much has changed and some of the pages haven’t changed with the times. Since I kept loosing track of what I edited and what I didn’t, I decided that it was best to unpublish everything and update and republish each page individually

There is probably a better way to do it, but this way works the best for me.

What some of you might notice later is that some of those pages were combined while other pages will not be returning. I’m not just streamlining my behind-the-scene process, I’m minimizing this website to make it easier to find things and easier for me to maintain. Kinda a win-win all around

So here is a list of changes that you will notice or be noticing soon:

#1 The Book Section

This section was removed because it was in need of an update and it will be the first section that I bring back. I’m starting by removing anything that isn’t physically out on the market. Then I’ll be removing all the pages no one ever visits. After that I’ll add some pages that I think will be more useful for readers. Anything that will be coming out in the future will only be added when I’m ready to publish it and have a publishing date for them.

#2 The Handmade & Vintage Shop

For a while I was tempted to remove this section completely from my website and just focus on putting stuff on my Etsy shop since it is far easier to do so and I didn’t have the time to add items to both shops. Only I’m learning really quick that I’m not a fan of some of the changes that Etsy is making and would rather create a shop here.

However, the way I went about the shop here was kind of messy. I kept adding more and more stuff at Etsy, and even tweaking and expanding the collections over there. I waited to add things to my web shop until I had more time. But that never happened. Now nothing lines up between my web shop and Etsy, which my brain doesn’t like.

With the holidays fast approaching, which limits my extra cash, and since it would cost more to create the shop I would feel comfortable ordering from than I’m willing to part with at this time, it’s going to have to wait until the new year to upgrade my website into a shop, until then though, I will be adding all 30+ items here, plus adding the others before I add them on Etsy.

So those who are more comfortable ordering printables, handmade goods, vintage items, or even custom order a gift directly from me rather than Etsy can contact me with their order.

#3 The Design Service Section

This section will probably be the last one I work on, because I have some research to do first. I have been wanting to offer more services to authors than just the book cover design lately. These services are for authors who need some help with the writing and even the publishing process. Much like an author’s assistant or writing coach.

I do know that I will be downsizing the page and making it look more like a shop page to help authors navigate it easier.

#4 The Blog

I’ll be doing something different with this blog, or maybe I should say that I’m returning to an early time with it. I’m tired of trying to stick to scheduled posts that apparently my brain doesn’t like to do and finds ways to sabotage after a short sprint. There is one last scheduled post about what I read left before I start something else.

So, how long are these changes going to take?

I’m not really sure. This week will be very busy for me with editing, writing, and sewing.

The basic pages that were the easiest to update and add back are already up. The Book section is my next priority and I don’t see it taking more than a week to finish. The Handmade & Vintage Shop will need the most updating and I will have to add more pages for the products. The Design/Author Service page will take the longest time to go through and I don’t expect it to be done until sometime around the first of the year.

The plan is to see how far I can get in updating my website this week as my work schedule is sporadic and I probably won’t get much writing done. Starting next week, I plan to work on a page or two each day until I’m done.

Wishing you all the very Best this November,

Stephannie Beman

Heads Up! It’s an Update!

It’s been brought to my attention by my daughter that it’s been nearly a month since my last blog post and that she believes that another post is in order. She tells me that this is because if I “want to be any kind of blogger or Youtuber of note, you have to post often”. I didn’t have the heart to tell my hormonal 13 year old that I don’t want to be a blogger most days, and the idea of being a Youtuber makes me want to pull the plug on the Internet altogether.

I’m debating if that would be a good thing or a bad thing. I think I could live without it far easier than most of the other people in this house. Not that we have time to be on it all the time. They just spend more time playing on it while I only work and sometimes shop on it.

But regardless of who would and wouldn’t survive the disconnect of the computer, she was right about one thing: it is time for an update on what I’m doing.

This Website is Receiving an Update

I won’t get into too much detail as I address it in my next post. Yes, it’s already written and pre-scheduled, but only because the update post was getting way too long and I decided to split it in 2. Which means this portion of the post was written last. LOL

I Finished Editing An Angel in Tartarus

I was talking to my sister about this short story and she offered to give it a once over. She had some awesome suggestions that I took and it motivated me to send it to my editor for a once over.

Cover Coming Soon
New Cover Coming Soon

I got in back from my lovely editor, who I hope will always edit my stories, and went through the suggested changes. It’s now ready to republish, but since I don’t have the companion novel that goes with it edited, I’m going to wait until Loving the Goddess of Love ready to be republished.

I’m Working on Custom Orders

A family friend has commissioned a curtain from me and even provided the fabric. We owe him a lot, so I’m doing it as part of his Christmas gift. I plan to work on this project today along with two other sewing projects.

My other custom order projects include: 4 hand embroidered tea towels and a winter-themed linen table runner. The cloth for the table runner needs to be cut to size and the raw edges hemmed up, so I plan to do that when I work on the curtain.

I printed out the patterns I’m using last night, so I’ll trace them with a heat transfer pencil and get the snowmen designs transferred to the tea towels so I can start embroidering them this weekend. The table runner will wait until I’m done with the edges so I can make sure the images I printed are big enough.

Lastly, I’m using a pair of old jeans to create a cover for my hybrid Bullet Journal / Travel’s Notebook system so I can keep all my notebooks and planners in one place. Unless I decide to make 2. I want to finish before the new year when I get my new writer’s planner.

I’d Rather Be Writing 2020 Planner, PDF $12.99 & Printed $16.99

I’m Back to Writing The Lost Heir

For the past month, I’ve been working on The Lost Heir Series and I really want to finish it up. This is a series of novella length books about the Rebel Cynel and the Seer Mina whose quest to find the Lost Heir to the Empty Throne leads them down some dark paths and intertwine their fates in unexpected ways.

So far I’ve reading through Book 1, The Butcher of Jhedek Pass, to refresh my memory of the story. Then I started reading Book 2, The Warlord’s Daughter, which was basically finished and just needed a few scenes to complete the story. Now I’m moving to Book 3, Rebels & Traitors.

Rebels & Traitors is already about 17,000 words and since I’m aiming at between 20,000-30,000 for each story, I’m pretty sure that it won’t take me long to wrap that book up either.

New covers will need to be updated to fit the new titles of the books and series, much like most of the things around here. LOL

And if that wasn’t enough…

I joined NaNoWriMo 2019

This will be the first time since 2012 that I will be doing this. I’m mostly doing it to support my sister who wanted to try it out and not because I wanted to do it.

I know that NaNoWriMo is helpful to many writers, I’ve just never been one of them. In the past, it has done nothing to motive me which is why I dropped doing it after 2 years. With all the things on my plate, I’m not confident in my ability to write 50k words in November, but it can’t hurt to try.


So there you have it. That is what I’m going to be doing for the next little while. What are you guys doing? I’d love to hear about it in the comments!

In Which I Debate Killing A Few Things + a Show & Tell

Because I want to make my handmade shop work for our lifestyle, I’ve been diving into what it takes to run a successful handmade business while making it flexible enough for our life. Most of what I’ve learned isn’t really anything new. There are many things that don’t change from one business to another, but there are also things that aren’t so universal.

But some of the things I’ve learned make me want to kill a few things. Like the person who created SEO, my Facebook Page and basically every social media platform every created for sucking me into procrastinating and doing absolutely nothing for my self-esteem, all the business “gurus” who spout off how to succeed but have little to no real time success that I can find or the business gurus that give advice that isn’t feasible for my lifestyle but make me feel guilty by not doing what they tell me to, and the idiots who decided to screw up US sales tax for online businesses by making it harder than it really needs to be and throwing a monster wrench into my website plans. I swear they are all created to drive me insane.

Because of many of the above, I’ve had to rethink my goals and plans. Like I’m going to have to downsize some of my plans into more manageable steps before I can implement them. I’m going to have to drop some plans because, as things are at this moment, they won’t work for me. I’m going to have to slow some plans down and do more research before spending time on them.

And because of the confusing sales tax laws that I don’t have the time to figure out right now, I won’t be able to open a fully operational shop on my website anytime soon. For the time being you will find :

  • All my vintage and handcrafted products on Etsy.
  • All my digital planners and organizers, patterns, and printables on Etsy and Payhips.
  • My printed planners, books, and eBooks can be found on Payhips and various eBookstores like B&N and Amazon. Each book will have the different shops.

I wish it could be different, but at this time I don’t have the money to upgrade my website. As with all my business, I try to stay out of debt by funding all purchases for my business from my business income. This means that other than custom orders, I won’t buy anything new. Instead, I utilize my various craft stashes to create whimsical items I believe others would love as much as I do.

You may still order anything straight from me if you want, just send me a request via email me or my contact form.

Now on to a Show & Tell

I’m so thankful for everyone who has supported my new business, both handcrafted and book related. It’s been a busy September with getting handcrafted items out to customers, adding more into my shop, making a few for my family, creating mock ups of ideas that may or may not be sold, and working on editing a short story for republishing.

There were a few horrible flops dealing with paper mache and jewelry that I will either need to rethink or give up altogether. The tags I had printed for my handcrafted products in August (I followed this DIY for them) ended up being too big for small things like bookmarks and too awkward to sew on crochet items, so I’m going to have to rethink how I want to change them for those items.

I’ve been sewing these labels onto my tea towels that I hope to start listing in October.

I stitched up a few small bags and fingerless gloves from crocheted granny squares that I uncovered while cleaning up my stashes. These were leftover from an afghan I made a few years back and I couldn’t see throwing them out.

The gloves turned out to be women’s small (I only know this because that is the size of gloves I wear.). The small bags turned out better then I hoped. I was going to put the ones I finished in my shop, but the girls stole them all. They put Pokemon cards and ear buds in the bags and wore the gloves to school. I’ll have to wait until I have more scrap yarn before I make some more.

The small bags ended up being the perfect size for my business cards.

My biggest order to date was 6 crochet winter placemats in a beautiful variegated blue, 4 matching crochet washcloths, and an awesome custom ordered T-shirt with the hand embroidered phrase “I’d Rather Be Writing” and quill on it. I’m debating making one for me because I love everything about it!

Then there was the 2 custom ordered linen placemats with custom embroidered image in the corner. Sorry about the splash of pink, sadly I can’t share the design for a number of reasons. These were bought as a gift for someone else and I’ve been told that she absolutely loves them which made me happy to hear. 😀

Almost a year ago I was at Jo-Ann’s and bought this mermaid pendant. Since then I’ve been trying to figure out what I want to do with it. I’ve created a few designs for it that I haven’t been all that happy with. While going through my box of broken jewelry and jewelry makings looking for jump rings for my daughters necklace, I uncovered these set of “pearls” that needed a new clasp siting next to the pendant and it just clicked. I really liked the look and now I’m really tempted to make a mermaid jewelry collection sometime in the future. LOL

I ran across this tiny cross stitch birdhouse that I created several years ago when I was creating a new design for a wall hanging for my mom. I added fusible interfacing to the back and stitched the edges closed. This was suppose to be an experiment in using fusible interfacing on the back of my bookmarks. It worked so much better than the cloth that I’m backing all my bookmarks with interfacing. I also decided to add this bookmark to my shop.

I finished another Birthday Bookmark to add to the collection. I love these hand stitched bookmarks for several reasons. They are beautiful, durable, washable, and long lasting. I still have the first cross stitch I ever made. This bookmark still looks like new 20+ years later, so does the December Bookmark I made for myself is over 15+ years ago.

Soon to be added to my shop.

I have an idea for the bookmarks that I’m working on implementing in October with all my hand stitched bookmarks that I’m hoping will make them more appealing to book lovers like myself. 😀

Well, I better get going. I have a lot of projects I want to work on and some changes I need to do on this website before the day is done.

Wishing you all the very best,

Stephannie Beman

“I’d Rather Be Writing” 2020 Planner

For several years now, I’ve been using the planner system that I created for myself based on the Ryder Carroll’s Bullet Journal system. I later adapted that initial system into a series of planners I started selling in 2016. The newest edition is the I’d Rather be Writing 2020 Planner.

If you haven’t guessed already, this planner is solely geared towards writers and not as general broad as it has been in past editions. Part of this is because everyone that I know who buys this planner happens to be a writer. 😀

The other part is because I’ve come to realize that I really need to narrow the focus on all my planners and “Build Your Own Planner” PDFs. So that is what I did with this planner. I want to release a few other kinds, but at the moment I’m far too busy with creating orders, the kids starting school, learning different business type, and the business side of running a shop.

In honor of the release of the “I’d Rather Be Writing 2020 Planner”, I decided to offer a 20% discount on this planner plus all my planners and inserts here and in my Etsy shop. Which means the $16.99 list price will be $13.59, and you save $3.40 if you buy before the sale ends September 6th.

So buy 2020 Planner, already printed & coil bound for from (Discount pre-added):

Or buy the 2020 Printable PDF Planner for $12.99 at:

Coupon code for Payhip:
QT2QSG2XOO

Coupon code for Etsy:
PLANNERSALE

Buy I’d Rather Be Writing 2020 Planner for $16.99!
Coil Bound Planner at LULU, Printable PDF Planner at ETSY,
Or order them straight from ME!

Wishing you all the best!

Stephannie Beman

Working & Hancrafting

With the start of haying season, my productivity has gone way down. At least where handcrafting personal projects is invovled.

I still have many projects in various stages of completion that I put on the back burner while I worked on orders and packaging.

This month I was able to get the 5 Birthday Bookmarks I still have left and the Cat’s Eyes Bookmarks packaged.

All the bookmarks packaged in their own envelopes.

I’m still working on making the other 7 months of the Birthday Bookmarks again. But they are a lower priority to actual orders.

I added a Custom Order Listing to my shop this month and have already had some takers on it.

I have just finished a series of 4 custom order tea towels that I can’t reveal at this time, but that I show glimpses of the stitching on my Facebook page. I finished the last one this morning and decided to wash them along with several other sets of tea towels that all need to be pressed, photographed, and packaged to head off to their new homes when the time comes.

My next projects over the course of the next couple of weeks will be a custom ordered shirt, a few sets of crochet placemats, 2 embroidered linen placemats, and some crochet wash cloths.

If it was okay with the customers, I will show some pictures of the projects in the coming weeks.

Wishing you all the best this summer,

July 2019 Check-In & My August Goals

Hey, Sweet Peas! I’m back for another check-in and goal post with my blog friends, fellow readers, writers, and crafting enthusiast. And now my brain just went to American football. LOL

Anywhoo, I hope you are all have a wonderful Summer and if you are at the opposite side of the world from me, a mellow winter. It’s been a month and a lot of stuff has changed on some fronts and very little on others.

Allergies & my Tonsils

I stayed inside most of July because the pollen was so bad that it started a domino effect of runny noses, sneezing, watery eyes, and some days it actually set off my asthma if I even walked out the door. Mowing the lawn was miserable, weeding the flower bed impossible. Luckily it calmed down about mid-July and the roses were happy be rid of the weeds and get their fertilizer, not that they really needed them.

Thankfully my swollen tonsils seem to be going down thanks to some natural remedies. The antibiotics that they gave me in May did very little to help. But gargling salt water and taking Emergen-C seems to be helping.

Little Miss T’s Afghan

I finally finished this afghan for my little Miss T this month. I was so glad to get it out of my travel bag before it got too hot, because that is one very warm blanket. She has been so excited to be using it and the color scheme turned out better than I thought it would. 😀

How my July 2019 Goals went & what my August Goals will be

There are several things that I hope to accomplish in July and set up for August, but there were also things that I didn’t take into account when I made the goals and until I was ready to do them I didn’t realize the problem.

Personal Goals

Take the kids to the pool, library, or the water park at least once a week until School starts again: We only managed to make it twice this month. There was too much going on in our personal lives.

Get back into the habit of walking once to twice a day: I failed to do this, but mostly because of my allergies wouldn’t allow it. Now that allergy season seems to be winding down for me, I’m working to make walking a habit.

Handcrafted Items for my Shop

Most of what I need to do include taking photos, writing descriptions, figuring out pricing and shipping prices, and listing several finished items that I’ve taken from my stash. If anyone is interested in purchasing any of the items below from me rather than Etsy, please email me and let me know.

Listing my Woodland Hoods: I didn’t do this and that was more for seasonal reasons that I didn’t think of at the time that I made this goal. I pushed this back a month. The Woodland Hoods will be $25 for small kids and $40 adults.

Listing Made to Order Place Mats: Initially I was going to make seasonal placemats only, but after making a trip to my local store (about 2 hours away) to look for cotton yarn, I realized that their choices were shit. So I hopped onto one of my favorite online stores to check out their color choices. I couldn’t choose just a few or if I should use just Cotton yarn or the cotton-polyester blend, so I made 2 listing of Made to Order Placemats with a huge selection of yarn colors you can choose from.

I ended up having to change my initial price for these. The 100% Cotton Placemats will be $35.95 and the Cotton-Polyester Blend Placemats will be $32.95. The difference in price is due to the cost of materials used. 100% cotton costs more than the blend.

List various dish towels from my stash: I love these dish/tea towels and I’m looking forward to them getting to a great home but I waited on listing these because I decided to do something different. I started by factoring in the cost of buying the 32″ x 36″ Premium Quality Flour Sack Dish Towels that I hand stitch these on, and I realized that I needed to sell them for more to cover my costs. I tried buying 2 other brands of tea towels at a lower price to see if I could lower the cost but the quality of cloth wasn’t the best so I’m going back to my original towels.

Due to the quality of the cloth and size of the towels, they will be sold for $20.95 each or save $13.70 and buy a set for $139.95. I will be offering small sized towels later on and possible the best of the 2 brands I bought for a lower price for those who want the old style look of hand embroidered tea towels but not the price tag.

Finish the lettering on a set of dish towels and prep them for listing next month: I stalled on this project but only because I wasn’t sure if I want to make the floral towels a set or sale them as individuals. I decided to make these a set for $139.95.

Listing two cross-stitch projects on Etsy: I got pictures taken of the professional framed project and the unframed project, but I’m waiting on listing these until later this year. There were several projects that were smaller and easier to list that will give me a better idea of what I need for shipping these items. This is still a learning curve for me.

Finish the Border of the Full-Sized Octagon Afghan: This took up far too much of my time this month because I decided that I didn’t like how it looked and ended up pulling the afghan apart. I decided to make this a hexagon shaped afghan rather than rectangle and picked a different joining method and border. I love this so much better now. So this is something I will continue to work on.

Sketching out Owl transfers for dish towels: I finished this and sent it off to the lady who is having me stitch these. Once she approves the designs I will start stitching these towels. If anyone has suggestions for designs for dish towel, let me know below.

Writing Goals

I wrote an entire blog post about my goals to Finish editing the Goddess of Love & Writing The Lost Heir Series that you can read here. I have no plans to write in August unless I feel the need to put pen to paper.

Website & Blog

Continue adding listings to my Etsy shop: Despite some issues happening over at Etsy at the moment that I’m not the happiest about and that are reminiscent of author-related issues that happened at Amazon a few years back, I decided that I would keep my Etsy shop open. The idea is to add 1 new product every few days to every week until I have everything in my extensive stash of items listed.

My Website Shop: Since opening my Etsy shop in April, and with the changes that Etsy is making, I need to have my own shop open here on my website. Due to the lack of funds at the moment, I can buy an eCommerce website package, so I have to make due with what I have. This means lots of research and work behind the scenes to set up the back end. This all takes time away from me making new items or listing new items. It’s a slower process then I like, but eventually I will have everything listed on this website too. Until then anyone who wants to purchase a product will have to contact me directly or buy from my Etsy shop.


Now that you know what’s going on in my life and my goals for August, what about you guys? What’s happening with you guys? What goals do you have this month?

Wishing you the best,

Stephannie Beman

What I’m Writing

I wish I could say that I got more done on the writing front this month, but sadly  my focus was torn between working on listings for my Etsy shop, the changes going on with Etsy, some orders that I needed to work on, finally getting to weeding the flower bed and fertilizing the rose bushes, and my kids.

My two writing goals in July were:

1. Writing The Lost Heir Series

I did work on updating my Series Binder for The Lost Heir Series, but I kinda ran out of steam when I got to the character bios. My character bios have always been simple and basic, mostly how the character looks, dresses, possible family connections, and any idiosyncrasies that pop up that I should be aware of. There are very few changes that need to be made to the bios that I figured could be done while I’m writing.

The next thing I wanted to accomplish and only half did was tracking the  various story threads and character arcs through the series of books in the hopes of being able to plan out each book so that I know what happens and can utilize the over 186k words already written. This is going to take more time then I thought for two reasons: the kids are distracting and still need mom’s help to cook meals (this is something they are still learning to do) and I need to make sure that each book is a complete story.

I ended up putting this aside, probably until September when the haying is done and the kids are in school, so that I can take the time I need to figure things out.

2. Finish editing Loving the Goddess of Love

I definitely didn’t complete this one, but I did get a few chapters edited this month and finalized the cover art and title change. There was a lot more wrong with the editing of this book then I first thought and it makes me cringe that I paid two different editors to edit this book and they did a horrible job of it!

The plan is to continue working on editing this book until I can send it to an editor that I trust to fix my improper use of commas. At this time, I’m not sure when this will come back out as writing is my passion project more than my focus at the moment, but it is starting to look like it will be closer to November.

Wishing you all the best,

Stephannie Beman