Women Are Different, So Heroines Should Be, Too

Even though this is geared toward writers, I love Ruth’s take on making every heroine in her books different and why she does it. It’s a great article for writers and readers both. Enjoy!

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This post is a semi-rant.  From time to time, it irks me that people think there is a one-size-fits-all heroine.  (Actually, there is no one-size-fits-all hero or villain or secondary character or kid, either, but I’m going to speak specifically about heroines.)

How Women Are Different

Just like fingerprints, no two women are exactly alike.

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This entire post is based off a comment I recently received after someone read one of my books with a heroine who wasn’t in major pain after her first time of having sex.  I don’t know why we have to assume every single woman on this planet will have a horrific first time.  I didn’t.  In fact, my first time didn’t hurt at all.  But then, my husband and I took our time and I was able to get ready for him.  I had no tearing, no bleeding…

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Writer Doubts and Pushing On

The last two weeks I’ve been plagued with doubts about The Queen’s Rebellion Series. The kind of doubts that can be crippling. Things like:

  • Am I going about this character/scene/plot line the right way?
  • Am I doing justice to the character/plot?
  • Should I keep this? Should I delete this? Is this really necessary?
  • Am I making the plot/theme of the story clear?
  • Should I slow down and explain more? Or do I need to explain less and speed up?
  • Is book #1 interesting enough for people to continue to read the rest of the series or will it fall flat?
  • Would the people reading this be confused because I forgot to put something in?
  • Did I start too soon in the story? And should I get rid of book #1?

Anyone seeing the start of a pattern here? Yeah, I’m having issues with book #1. I know that I finished writing it back in January and moved on to book #2, but I’ve got this niggling feeling that I’m doing it wrong.

Wow! Just had a flashback to the movie Mr. Mom. For those who would like to know what I’m talking, here’s a YouTube clip to explain.  

Anyhoo, right now I’m filled with doubts about this book and really wished I had an alpha reader or several. I’ve been wanting to use that new (for me) term forever BTW 😀 . Because I would really like to discuss the particulars of the story over with someone who reads (sadly, hubby is not one of those people) and see if I’m missing something or if I’m doing packing to many subplots into the story.

But since I don’t have an alpha reader, or beta readers anymore, I’ll just have to push on and hope for the best.

Cross my fingers and pray! LOL


Want to know the difference between an Alpha Reader and a Beta Reader?

The Alpha Reader gets to read the unfinished draft, pieces of the draft, or may even act like sounding board for ideas. They should give you honest, immediate feedback on how the story plays, not line-specific notes. They’re the people who tell you what bores them, what confuses them, what’s cool, and what’s unbelievable.

The Beta Reader gets to read through the “almost ready” for publication draft and give you honest feedback on how the story plays –like what bores them, what confuses them, what’s cool, and what’s unbelievable– typos and grammar mistakes they find, and line-specific notes.

February 2017 Reading List

I tried something different with this last month, but I really didn’t like the format. So I’m going back to making my monthly reading list a separate post again, with one big change. I’m not going to post the description and a sentence of why I liked or didn’t like it. I’m actually going to write a short review. 😀

I spent the first week of February doing a lot of reading while I tried to figure out what was wrong with my current works-in-progress. Below are the five books that I like/loved enough to recommend. There were another four stories that I read, and while I found them interesting, they are not something I would recommend.

What I did like and would recommend are:

Chained (Brides of the Kindred, 9) by Evangeline Anderson

You know those moments in life when you do something good for someone else because it’s right, only to watch it backfire in every way imaginable, but in the end it all turns out good, or even better than you thought it might. That is this story.

Maggie is on a routine mission to Gaia for research, only the ship she’s on needs to make a detour to female dominated Yonnie Six to drop off a package. It only goes down hill from there when Maggie decides to rescue a slave from certain death. Only Korexiroth, or Kor, is far more dangerous than she believes and he is not about to abandon Maggie after she saved him. Only problem is every turn they make brings them closer together and into deeper and deeper trouble. There was a point when I was afraid that the characters wouldn’t get over their past issues and would be miserable forever without the other.

Divided (Brides of the Kindred, 10) by Evangeline Anderson

This is not the type of book I usually read. I’m not into erotic romance with love triangles or threesome, but I could not read the next book in the series. So very much would have been lost if I had skipped this book.

So I read it and I found that I liked it more than I thought I would. Becca is about to take her vows as a nun when she accidentally eats some very potent aphrodisiac cake and with the help of twin kindred warriors survives the ordeal. Only now she’s falling hard for the brothers who were separated at birth and believes she needs to choose between the two brothers who hate each other and refuse to share her as Twin Kindred do. It doesn’t help when something evil threatens to destroy all the Kindred protecting Earth and Becca, Far, and Truth are sent on a mission they believe will help stop it.

Dead Again by Tracy Cooper-Posey

I was drawn to this book because if the tagline, “They killed him—now they are back for survivors.” I couldn’t pass up a hook like that.

From the start to nearly the end I was on the edge of my seat thinking “Who the Hell is this guy?!” Mobster? Police? Criminal? Agent?

Sophie Ryerson is a woman who survived a plane crash that should have killed her with one other person, Jack Laubreaux. He saved her life and then died of his own injuries. Ten years later, she sees a man who reminds her of Jack and she’s drawn him. Martin Stride is a drifter who just wants a job and a warm place to sleep for winter. Sophie offers him both and he knows he shouldn’t accept, but he can’t seem to make himself walk away. He’s tired of running away from what he wants. 

Writing a Book in a Week: How to Profit with Self-Publishing by Alex Foster

This is one of those books that I ran across while searching for writing books and while I will probably never write a 65,000 word novel in a week, I figured it might have advice on writing faster and it did have a lot of it. Plus side, it’s a free read.

I love free books, especially when it comes from an unknown writer or it’s something I’m interested in but not sure if I want to spend my book money on. If I like their writing style, I don’t mind adding them to my wishlist for future book purchases.

I would suggest this book for writers getting started or who want to write faster but don’t want to spend the money on more expensive books.

 The Divine Guide to Creating a Daily Writing Practice by Pernille Norregaard

I’ve been wanting to create a daily writing practice for years and this book condenses all the stuff that I have learned over the years in articles into one book. Kinda like a reference book for setting up your writing habit.

This is another book that I found for free and I really didn’t learn anything I didn’t already know, but I would recommend it to writers who are looking to find more time to write and put your writing time to good use, deal with the fear and limiting beliefs that holds you back, and give you a strategy to stick with your writing routine.


Keeping Track!

This year one of my goals is to read at least 50 fiction books & 5 non-fiction books. 

January 2017: I read 5 fiction books and 1 non-fiction book.
February 2017: I read 7 fictions and 2 non-fiction books.

Total Fiction read this Year: 12 books.
Total Non-Fiction read this Year: 3 books.

Happy reading to ya’ll!

{Behind the Scenes} Pen Names, Branding,

Man! Last month was a mental month. As in “I spent way too much time in my head overthinking things” and not as in “I’m writing this from a padded cell because they overlooked my cell phone and there is awesome Wi-Fi in here!”

First off, I dropped the idea of having a pen name. Not going to happen. I don’t need the hassle of juggling both websites/blogs, the headache of keeping both names afloat, or the pressure of writing under two names. What I write is what you get, don’t like it, don’t buy it.

Wow! That kinda sounds bitchy when written out. Maybe I should take my kids advice about the vlogging seriously so that you can hear me say it. Way, way less bitchy and there was a big smile with it.

Anyhoo, my second change of the month was more about branding and genre. You see, the books I want to write, and the reason I’ve been going back and forth on the pen name, don’t fit the brand I’ve created for myself here. But I’ve decided to write the book, brand the look, and let the readers figure it out. If I’ve done a good job with the look of the cover and the blurb then it should be easy to know if the book I publish is one you want to read.

February 2017 In Review

I’m back for a second “In Review” Post, however, I decided to change the layout this time. I might tweak it again next month, so please bear with me as I work toward a format that I like.

Now personally, I’m constantly reviewing my life to see where I can improve, what I can get rid of, and make sure I don’t get caught up in the “you should be doing this” (total bullshit, BTW) rather than the “I want to be doing this”. I’ve learned from my mistakes in writing for business rather than pleasure and it’s not something I want to repeat. (I promise! Really! LOL OK, so probably not so much.)


So, my Life this Month… 

Ran smoothly for the most part, thanks for asking. 😀

No surprise firestorms or hurricanes, although there was a lot of snowstorms  this month, and even a snow day or two. We were even able to make it to the orthodontist for a six-week checkup and back without incident.  Little T, my oldest daughter, might have her braces off sooner than planned. YAY! But Little K, my youngest daughter, still has a few months and should have an x-ray soon to see if she has the needed room for her teeth to come in properly.

I’m looking forward to the braces being gone. The extra time taking care of them and travel to their offices and back is a pain in the ass.

This month I spent most of my mornings hanging out with hubby before he heads to work, writing during the four hours that I have before the girls get home, and hanging out with the girls for the rest of the evening before bed.

Little K came home around the first of the month with a desire to do Yoga. She was inspired by a teacher who showed the girls how to do the “Crow” (outside link for the interested). Ever since we’ve been trying to integrate Bedtime Yoga into our evenings although with less advanced positions. I’m just not that balanced. LOL


My Goal to Finish Writing 5 Books in 2017

This went awesome!

I really want to finish writing all the five books in The Queen’s Rebellion Series (crossing my fingers that I won’t find a reason to write more. I believe five books in a series is my limit.). I started these books in 2014 and due to personal and family stuff I wasn’t able to finish them. Now I’m back to writing and working toward finishing them. I know, “It’s about damn time!”

Now this goal doesn’t include editing or publishing the books, although I’m hoping to get that done this year too. First, I want to finish writing the entire series before I even think about editing them. However, I’m looking toward a 2018 release date for all five books and the series box set.

There was one draw back this month, but it turned out to be the best one so far. When I finished The Warlord’s Daughter and started writing The Scout’s Captive, I had this niggling feeling that something was off with the story and so I finally broke down and printed off all 340 pages (that’s 8.5″x11″ sized pages, not 5.5″x8.5″ sized pages) to look over. I found that I needed to make some changes that I wasn’t expecting but which improved the stories of each book. You can read more about in Listening to my Inner Writer.

Due to these changes, I’m hoping that I will be finishing the books ahead of schedule.

the_warlords_daughter_1_webThe Warlord’s Daughter

Phase: writing completed 01/5/2017
Word Count: 66,715 (but only because I moved two scenes to TSC. I have two, possible three scenes to write.)
Due: February 1st

the_scouts_captive_2_webThe Scout’s Captive

Phase: Writing
Word Count:  78,422
Due: April 1st

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The Lost Heir

Phase: Waiting to be written
Word Count: 27,734
Due: June 1st

the_empty_throne_4_webThe Empty Throne 

Phase: Waiting to be written
Word Count: 27,910
Due: September 1st

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The Rebel Queen

Phase: Waiting to be written
Word Count: 43,039
Due: December 31st


 My Goal to Write Everyday &
Write 300,000 New Words in 2017

Part of my writing goals for 2017 is to write every weekday and add 300,000 new words this year. This month has required a little more discipline on my part because Hubby’s work schedule changed and so my schedule had to change with it. So no more writing in the morning after the kids leave. 😦

Most days I’m forced to wait until the afternoon to start writing and by then I’m tired or distracted by other things. I wish I could say that the change is easy for me, but I’m a very routine oriented and the constant back and forth every month screws me up for a few days to most of the month.

Even with the change in schedule, the word count and writing every weekday goals went better than I thought they did. Despite thinking that I would take the weekends off, I usually ended up writing something, even if I did it old school and wrote a scene in my notebook rather than on my laptop.

Days I wrote: 20
Days I didn’t write: 8

February’s Word Count for February: 28,346 new words
Total Word Count for 2017:
 62,979 new words

Note: The 300,000 words doesn’t include words written for blog posts or web pages unless it was something creative. I am using a Excel program from Svenja Gosen to keep track of my progress and I would suggest it to anyone who wants to do the same. I’ve used this spreadsheet on and off every year since 2014.


My Goal to Write in my Work/Writing Journal

After reading Working Days: The Journals of The Grapes of Wrath by John Steinbeck, I decided that I wanted to keep a writing journal for my works-in-progress. I started this goal in December in my Bullet Journal.

In January 2017, I started to use one of the journals I’ve had lying around forever. So far I like how it is turning out. I don’t always remember to write in it before I start writing but I figure it’s a work-in-progress.

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I believe I bought this leather journal in 2001 with several refill journals and never used it. Ah, such is the life of a writer.


And My Office Goal

Yet another goal of mine is to create an inspiring work space, which I knew wasn’t going to be easy when I made the goal because even though we are living in a house that is two to three times larger than our cabin, my office area is smaller than ever.

officebefore

My old office in the cabin was roughly 4’x8′ and there was more storage space with my printer stand/shelves & filing cabinet that you can’t see in the picture.

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My office space now is about 2’x4′ and doesn’t include the filing cabinet which holds other paperwork unrelated to me at all or my printer stand/shelves which was re-purposed for something to do with movies.

Since I’m once more in the living room, which is filled with distractions and very limited on space, and everything I need for writing has to be on the desk, I’ve had to make some changes like:

  • The wire basket on the left side of my desk holds notes for current writing projects, my day planner, and blog notes. Then if I have to work somewhere else, like the kitchen table or the counter in our bathroom, I can take the basket with me. Anything I don’t need for the moment has to be stored elsewhere in the house (which is really annoying).
  • The big black binder on my desk is my story binder for The Queen’s Rebellion. It holds all my notes on the world and characters for the series, plus pictures and maps and timelines. I found the printed version much easier than the digital one. It’s in need of an update though. (My favorite how to create a series binder explanation is on YouTube by author Kami Garcia.)
  • The black book on the right of my laptop is the work/writing journal I mentioned above. It’s where I record all the boring details of what I’m writing, how I feel about what I wrote, ideas for the stories, etc.
  • The stacks of crap in the shelves on the right side of my desk is everything I’m working on making digital or that I need close by. It’s been a goal of mine for a few years now to make my office as digital as possible. I’ve been going through all my papers when I have time and deciding what to keep and what to toss. When I have the chance I type up notes for future books (I love using Scrivener for this. I find it very helpful) and any notes I’ve made while reading books or articles (I like OneNote for this).
  • Since my desk faces the window and I have no walls to hang my corkboard of inspiring quotes, writing calendar, dry erase board for notes, or pictures, I’m creating a desktop slide show for quotes and pictures, and my planner for my writing calendar. So far I have eighteen pictures or inspiring quotes. I’ve been thinking of placing it on this website as a freebie for other writers, but I have to look into copyright issues first.

If I could find another space in the house for my office space that didn’t include me getting rid of my awesome desk or our furniture, I would do it in a heartbeat, but it’s not possible. Trust me, I’ve looked. 😦


My Plans for Next Month…

Are limited to watching for that first cow who is going to calve, feeding the livestock, working toward finishing The Scout’s Captive, and starting The Lost Heir.

Wishing you all the best,